Dating and relationship coach for people who want to find love, stop wasting time online, and thrive in their relationships.

Find out more about Jasmine

• 1) When and why did you develop an interest in your chosen field?

  I was very reluctant at first to get started on dating apps, but worked on my mindset and developed a really good method that turned the experience into something productive and efficient. This was contrasted to hearing so many others complain about how they were feeling burnt out and as a result taking time off the apps altogether. I wanted to help other people have a more positive experience, which was my inspiration to go into dating and relationship coaching. On top of that, I struggled with anxious attachment in relationships for most of my 20s and was motivated to help people feel more secure in their relationships.
  
  For as long as I can remember, I have been obsessed with human behaviour and how humans relate to each other, so coaching really brought it all full circle.

• 2) What makes you passionate about your subject?

  We were never taught how to relate to each other and build connection with another human, yet having a life partner is something that most of us desire so deeply. Many clients of mine have successful careers and know how to interview well and talk to colleagues, but when it comes to building personal romantic relationships, they don’t know where to start. I am motivated to help clients learn how to relate better, and fulfilled knowing this work has such a significant impact on their lives.

• 3) What do you like about tutoring? What makes you a "Superprof"?

  I am so energized when helping clients identify blocks that might be holding them back, like realizing that they are approaching dating from a place of low self-worth, and reframing concepts such as learning to see the apps as a tool to help them meet the love of their life.
  
  While I hold clients accountable, I also bring a great deal of gentleness to my work. Most rewarding for me is when a client tells me how comfortable they feel sharing with me. I was touched by a particular experience with a client who, during our consultation, was almost in tears because she told me that despite years of seeing various counselors and therapists, she had never opened up this much before as she had with me in our 30 minute consultation.
  
  In terms of my professional background, I studied psychology in university, so naturally have a strong understanding of human behaviour. I think what makes me unique is that I also have an MBA, and bring a marketing lens to crafting dating app profiles. I’ve also spent a lot of time mentoring people over the years, both formally and informally, and that’s given me the ability to listen well and pick up on key nuggets. My mentoring experience has also trained me on how to meet people where they are at and provide insights and suggestions to clients in ways that will actually resonate with them and that they will be able to implement.

• 4) Do you have any role models; a teacher that inspired you? Please explain.

  I am inspired by one of my own life coaches that I worked with. He helped me get clear on my values and natural gifts, how I can live a life aligned with those values and use those natural gifts, and identify mental blocks holding me back. I think helping someone see things within themselves and develop greater self-awareness is the most valuable type of help you can offer and is the kind of support I strive to provide my clients with.

• 5) What are your keys to success?

  Live life with integrity – your character is what you do when nobody is watching. Live aligned with your values.
  
  I am a big believer in the power of consistent effort over long periods of time – something that I recommend to all my coaching clients particularly as it pertains to dating apps! One of my favourite quotes is: “The most successful people I know are rarely extraordinary. They do ordinary things with extraordinary consistency while everyone else is distracted by literally everything”.